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How to get rid of our “Third Places” and thoughts on: Our Vanishing “Third Places”
“An electronically-operated garage door out front and a privacy fence out back afford near-total protection from those who, in former days, would have been neighbors.”
I think that separating ourselves from the outside world is in vogue. From immersing ourselves to our systematic daily routine (and not looking out) to grabbing with our eyes any digital device screen (and reducing to a minimum our peripheral vision) we create “bubbles” and occupy them at all times. If that process is increasing by the minute, it means that the demand for “Third Places” is decreasing and of course the customer is always right.
“The flaw in much of today’s residential land use pattern — all space is used up and there’s no provision for a community life.”
I think part of the flaw is a response to how our “home-to-work-and-back-again shuttle” works: mainly as a car commute. Therefore, that need was answered by a city-grid planned around vehicles with a very high percentage of the public property dedicated to vehicular circulation and the rest to pedestrian circulation only.
If you want to get rid of our few “Third Places” simply do nothing or move as far away from work as possible.
On the other hand, if you want them back follow what advanced societies do:
“THE CITIES OF THE FUTURE ARE PEOPLE-FRIENDLY CITIES” (http://denmark.dk/en/green-living/bicycle-culture/the-cities-of-the-future-are-people-friendly-cities/)
I think the best way to try to rescue or create public “Third Places” might be to transform our sidewalks from being circulation-paths to a series of bay-spaces or plazas by lowering the percentage-area that is currently assigned to cars.
“Third places are nothing more than informal public gathering places.”
The moment “Third Places” appear people will start using them.
About six years ago New York City created a “Third Place” in Times Square as a series of plazas that potentiated the place to become an actual square. In my opinion an excellent move. It helped near by businesses and attracted many interesting people like “The Desnudas”.
“The Desnudas of Times Square, Topless but for the Paint” (http://www.nytimes.com/2015/08/16/nyregion/the-desnudas-of-times-square-topless-but-for-the-paint.html)
Unfortunately, if you want to get rid of our few “Third Places” simply become one.
“Mayor de Blasio Raises Prospect of Removing Times Square Pedestrian Plazas” (http://www.nytimes.com/2015/08/21/nyregion/mayor-de-blasio-raises-prospect-of-removing-times-square-pedestrian-plazas.html)
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Thoughts on Ray Oldenburg’s article “Our Vanishing ‘Third Places’”
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Thoughts on “Third Places” – Debbie
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Third Places Reflection – Datrianna
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Thoughts on “Third Places” – Somin
Ray Oldenburg describes “Third Places” as places where we spend our time and get close to each other often sharing information. When I look at the characteristics of third places, I see it’s mixed of first place (home) and second place (work). It’s pleasurable like how we spend time at home. It’s also a place where we could share information like we usually do at work. According to Ray Oldenburg, we are having less and less places like third places. I somewhat understand why. We all know how technology and web-based service have been developed rapidly for last 2, 3 decades. Since we have internet, a lot of things can be accomplished online even creating communities.
Third places could be also different depending on what culture you have. Us, Koreans, have different cultural background comparing to American’s. When I think of third places in Korea, there’s none. Simply, we are not used to that. Another thing is that more and more Koreans don’t make time for neighbors nowadays. Only some Korean mothers who are very passionate about their children gather together to share school or after-class-activity related information. I won’t say this can be called so since it’s not pleasurable, moms are often competitive and even stressed out. Besides that, Koreans look for convenience a lot. For example, Ray Oldenburg mentioned laundromat as one type of third places. As far as I know, Koreans, who just came to America, prefer doing laundry in their own unit than doing it in public. Most of the houses in Korea have their own laundry machine and dryer so it makes Koreans naturally spend less time in public.
Though I was born and raised in Korea, I studied about 4 years in Vancouver, Canada where I experienced a bit what Oldenburg describes as third places. As a foreign student, I used to join language meetup every Monday night at a cafe downtown. There we usually talked about what we do, what we think about pretty much anything in multi languages. Now that I read this article, I remember how valuable time I spent in that cafe doing such unforgettable activities. We even met every weekend as well doing more fun activities such as cooking various traditional foods, going on a picnic, bicycling at Stanley Park, etc. I still contact many friends I met from the meetup. One of my friends I made from the meetup actually moved his school to one in Boston after having many talks about design and technology with me. I certainly remember many of us enjoyed our time talking and sharing information. I haven’t tried any language meetups here in NY yet, and I wonder if it’s similar to what I used to have in Vancouver since NY is such a busy city, people seem to have more stuff to do. I hope I could find one third place in NY for myself soon.
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Max’s Thoughts on “Third Places”
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Dami on Third Places
I have a home (First place) in two different places. One is in Seoul, South Korea where I was born and raised and other one is in New York City that I live now. Ironically, though I lived in Seoul longer than here, there are no my personal stuffs anymore in Seoul. Also, although I visit Seoul, with a joy of visiting my hometown, once every two years, I even feel some nameless awkwardness when I sometimes realize that there is no my own space completely in the house. Can I say that the house in Seoul is my first place? Then what about New York where I currently live? I honestly can’t say that this is a home completely for me either. There is no family here, I’m not USA citizen, and more of my close friends are in Seoul. Nevertheless, the reason I can say that this city is my current home as well as my third place is because I am building my life here.
When I think about the things that gave me small joys, while leading a busy life, in the third places, they were the relationships with people that I have built and communications I have had with them. Although I now live alone, I have spent more time with my roommates in New York. They befriended me when I was lonely and were willing to listen to my stories. I believe, through the people I met in the shared space in New York, a completely strange place at the time, I have been able to establish a more stable life for myself here. I also have been keeping in touch with my friend from Denmark I met in a youth hostel 6 years ago. Despite the differences in destinations and places where we live and the fact that we hardly get to see each other, it seems that the Internet and SNS have enabled us to keep in touch each other. I believe the relationships in the third place I have built with the people around me, such as the people at my favorite café, the salad store staff, who remembered my name and gave me macaroon to try, and the middle-aged gentlemen I met at Central park, who gave me small tips on life during a short conversation we had, etc., are making my everyday life more diverse and warm.
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